2008年6月18日

第一次的Playgroup

好了,繼續盈盈的故事,剛過去的星期日帶盈盈返playgroup,係一個所謂英文playgroup,780蚊,逢星期日返4次各1小時,由「外藉老師」任教。

第一次,由爹地 – 即係我陪同一齊上課。一入去個「課室」,見到其他「同學」… 吓? 年紀最大的同學只有12個月,有d只有9個月,盈盈已經19個月,成為班中最「大」的同學。

之前提過,盈盈現階段極之怕羞,果然不出所料,盈盈一入課室,就像一隻「樹熊」般攬實我,無論老師唱什麼歌,玩什麼遊戲,給她什麼玩具,盈盈都不肯落地。老師可能見到盈盈不理睬他,逗了她幾次之後就不再理她了。專注逗其餘四個bb。其他四個同學仍未識自己行,亦即仲係所謂「任人控制(任人舞)」的階段,基本上老師做什麼他們都係以笑容回應的,真開心(回想盈盈在9個月至1歲前都係咁樣,果陣時好易揍…)。

我亦都盡力幫盈盈融入活動中,一齊唱兒歌,一齊玩遊戲,可是盈盈完全沒有反應。只對牆上的壁報有興趣,因為可以撕爛。

過了45分鐘,盈盈終於忍不住,大哭大鬧,我只好帶她到隔壁房間,剛好有一套「煮飯仔」,盈盈自動自覺玩得不亦樂乎。

第一次的playgroup,就咁過去了,盈盈歸家後很倦,倒頭大睡,究竟是因為「玩」到倦還是「驚」到倦就不得而知了。

希望下次好d吧…或者,應否要求返一個大d(例如3歲)的playgroup?

6 則留言:

匿名 說...

Hi 麟記, thanks for sharing.
I don't have any children, but whats the point of attending to a playgroup? We never had and need no playgroup back in our days and lived healthily.

Cheers.

yogie 說...

I think this playgroup is not suitable for your child. Maybe one of her similar age 1.5 - 3 will suit her better.

Wheel 說...

hi,

其實係想盈盈多d同其他小朋友接觸學習相處...

今日同miss傾過, 轉去另一個1.5-2歲小組, 但返平日, 所以爹地和媽咪不能一同返.

匿名 說...

Hi,

It's nice to know the growth of your daughter. I'm going to have my baby with my wife this october.

Thank You

Postbox 說...

Hi, I have a daugther aged 19 months also. You are right that to let your daugther to meet other children as I suppose you have only one child at home (me too). I suggest you find a playgroup that you can attend since the playgroup in fact is not only for her learning but for you to play with her. That's important.

匿名 說...

Hi, 麟記
My baby boy is 19 mths old now. He acts the same as your daughter in the playgroup. Don't be upset and try to bring her to park so that she can hang around with our children in the park.